Uniqueness is not only defined by ones appearance and someone’s personality. Uniqueness is defined by ones actions, beliefs and wins throughout their lives. Beliefs and actions were taught in school till now you’re reading this post. Wins though, to be won, you need to practice in daring. Because no dare, no win, right?
Dare to be yourself, dare to the truth, dare to fail, dare to “fall”, dare to success, dare to dream. If you are not willing to dare, you are not going to win. Usually people with low self esteem find it dificult to win, and that’s because they change the way they act depending on what other people think of them, and they adopt their opinions to match with them. People often try to dare only in their dreams, and imagine how their life would be IF they were living their lives as their true selves.
First you need to know that you really want to “win”, and once you accept it, you have to proceed. Start doing bit by bit the thing you need to do in order to make what you want to be yours. By my experience, everything you need is right in front of your eyes. All you have to do is make a big step; stretch your hand and just grab it. The difficult part is the big step. The “how to make a big step”. Your low self-esteem is blocking you from showing others the wonderful person that you really are. Work on your self-esteem first, and then it will get easier to be you. The “big step” is going to be done at a perfect ease. And then all you have to do is just stretch your hand and grab what’s in front of you. That’s all. If you’re not willing to dare, you are not going to take anything at all. And once you’re not taking, you’re not giving in revert.
It’s easier and greater to be defined as self by your personal dares/wins rather than by your surroundings of friends and family.